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I don't even really know what to say. I guess I'll just state the facts. Dating is terrible. It's very unlikely that you are going to find someone you really connect with over the internet, being as though it is so ridiculously easy to develop this sort of false report with one another.and yet here I am. Why? Mostly because I work at least 45 hours a week, and the thought of continuing to try and meet someone in a bar is enough to make me stick my head in the oven.and yet, when I'm not looking, I feel as though I'm giving up, and that is just as depressing, if not more-so.
I'm the kind of girl that likes to laugh. Be it over some ridiculous comedy, or myself.I'm always laughing. I don't take myself, or anyone else very seriously. Life is short, and trying to fit into these social molds is an absolute waste of time. I like music. To a nearly obsessive level. I'm always singing, and can indentify with lyrics. I'm sure that sounds lame to most, but it's true. I feel there is nothing that isn't made better with music. I love to people watch. I love trying new foods, and once I like it, I will try to re-create it. Usually failing at doing so, but trying none-the-less. I love the water. I'm pretty sure I was a sea-monster in a past life, because once summer hits, you can find me under-water in Lake Huron, where I frequent as much as work allows. I work a lot. I have a pretty serious career, and with the economy the way it is, I feel blessed to be able to say so. I live on my own, and like it. I don't drive. If that's a problem, I make no excuses for it. It's a long story, and not really CL appropriate.but if you are curious, I'll fill you in. I'm no where near perfect. I mean, I am flawed. I'm a size 16. I like having curves. When I'm not at work, I'm a jeans and t-shirt kind of girl. I'm definately outgoing. I have a facial piercing and three tattoos.
I believe in love. Hah. It feels so cheesey to even write that, but it's true. I refuse to believe that being in your 20's is all about hooking up, or finding someone you can fuck.and you know what? If that is the case, I'll stay single. I'm not that kind of girl. I think that "hooking-up" too soon, pretty much ensures that your relationship isn't going to last. I mean who's going to want the cow when you're handing out the milk for free? Hah. Seriously though, I'm not going to put out within the first week of knowing you.
I feel really strange. I'm going on and on about myself. I hate the idea of trying to sell yourself. I have a pretty good idea as to who I would like you to be, so here it goes.
You should be funny. Like, you should be able to find humor in nearly all things. You shouldn't be afraid to laugh, even if it might be inappropriate. You should be smart. Know the differeces between they're, there and their.ect. I'm not saying you have to be a genius. I just really get off on conversation, so if we can't have one, it's never going to work. You should like music. I mean, I would love to sit and listen to songs with you, and talk about what they mean. You should like doing things at night, because I'm quite the night-owl, and think there is something magical about the darkness. You should like dorks, because I am one. Like, hardcore. Other than that, I'd just like you to be cool with who you are. Stick to your convictions and be a nice person. Niceness is under-rated.
Okay. Hope to hear from you. Who knows. Maybe something could come of this.
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